Integral Relationships

Martin Ucik's webpage:  Integral Relationship 

"Hopefully people will get a sense of just how complete Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men is.  Honestly, I haven’t seen anything quite like it—it’s very impressive."
Ken Wilber - The Integral Vision




Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men (and curious women) provides a practical map for singles and couples to co-creating an Integral Relationship. It integrates the growth potentials of body, mind, heart, and soul with healthy feminine and masculine polarities, putting them into a cultural and social context. This allows men to meet women as opposite and equal partners at their level of consciousness to co-create sustainable love relationships that serve the greatest good for the largest number of people.

Integral Relationships covers:

• The primary sexual fantasy, which judges females as harshly by their looks as it does males by their success. The primary emotional reaction of fear in females and shame in males. 
• Learned gender roles. Healthy and unhealthy feminine qualities of communion and descending.
• Healthy and unhealthy masculine qualities of agency and ascending.
• Multiple intelligences, values, passions, interests, and needs. 
• Effective communication skills. Eight levels of consciousness development—from archaic to transpersonal. Five levels of spiritual development—from gross to non-dual. Five levels of sexual development—from repressed to transcendental/sacred sexuality. 
• Five levels of anima complex in men—from women as mother to women as equal partners. 
• Five levels of animus complex in women—from men as alien outsider to men as equal partners. 
• States of falling in love and how to navigate them successfully. 
• Compatibility between different personality types, including the Enneagram and Love Languages. 
• Our simultaneous wholeness as individuals and partialness in our relationships, culture and society.
• Intimacy, passion and the unconscious that form eight types of love —from non-love to Integral Love. Compatibility between partners based on their “Kosmic Address” (combining levels of development or “altitude” with the number of perspectives a partner can take). 
• Sound advice how to heal and grow in an existing partnership, when to end a relationship with love and compassion, and how to find/attract a compatible partner for an Integral Love relationship.